What It Costs to Open a Restaurant in San Francisco
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Maybe I'd be able to work harder if I wrapped my self-worth up in my work, but I saw what that kind of attitude did to my father. He would come home drained and tired, and wouldn't be available during the week to do something like watch a TV show together. On the other hand, my mother had a fulfilling job, but she didn't have the same kind of emotional stake in it. She turned down a promotion because while it would have advanced her career, it wouldn't have served her interests as an individual.
"I understand it’s very unhealthy, but I base my self-worth off the success of my job." That's the quote at the bottom of the article. There's a gulf between knowing something is unhealthy and building a healthy life for yourself, something I wish more people would respect.
I've got a job offer for a very nice job, doing software development next month. The pays great, the people, the are great. However, I'm desperately looking for a product design job - because it's 100% my dream. I am fully aware that it's not healthy to tie my self worth to my job, and I should focus on financial stability, and work / life ratio.
But i'd just feel so unfulfilled, and at the end of the day, I just can't help it. Being excited to get up in the morning and go to work, also means getting hurt when it goes wrong.
First, when you say that it's 100% your dream, I can't accept that assertion at face value. Maybe this is cynical on my part, but the fact that your dream lines up so neatly with our cultural definitions of what it means to be successful is too suspicious to be a coincidence. So my cynical take on it would be that much your dream was given to you by other people, and only a small portion of it is truly yours. (There are rabbit holes here, for sure.)
My second reservation is that it's meaningless to "accept" that something is unhealthy without a solid understanding of the consequences of unhealthy behavior. I can accept the unhealthy consequences of eating a donut, because they're broadly familiar to me (an expanding waistline, elevated risk of heart disease in my future). I know people who have had heart attacks, I know people who are too heavy to comfortably hike the trails I love. But it's meaningless to accept that pouring yourself into your work is unhealthy unless you understand what the consequences are. I have friends who can barely enjoy being retired, even though they didn't really "enjoy" working, either. I have friends who have been depressed and unable to enjoy life for months after project failures. And I know people who have had panic attacks at school or work, panic attacks bad enough to call an ambulance.
There is no definition of free will that everyone can agree on, but in my book, understanding the consequences of our actions, and the ability to change our decisions as our understanding of consequences changes, are requirements for exercising free will.
Have you ever sincerely asked him if he did it because he had to or because it was his genuinely wanted to?
Some people may find the latter to be absurd, but I'm usually the same way during the weekdays.
The line between "had to" and "wanted to" is hard to see, because we internalize extrinsic motivation. However, I don't think the distinction between "had to" and "wanted to", or the distinction between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation, is a useful distinction in and of itself. Rather, I would like to understand the reasons people have for their decisions, whether they had foreknowledge of the consequences, whether they had false beliefs that contributed to the decision, and for what reasons they think they made the right or wrong decision.
Perhaps that's just my perspective, but if I think he made the wrong decision, the fact that he wanted to make the wrong decision doesn't change that. And my judgment that a decision is right or wrong is based on decades of experience and earnest conversations that we still have to this day.
And underneath all that is my own system of values, which in my experience outlasts all my wants or desires. Rather than understanding whether I want to pour a bunch of energy into my work, I would rather understand how I judge the value of work compared to other things in life, because that judgment will stick with me longer than a fleeting desire.
And to further clarify things, I don't think it's wrong to make a decision on the basis of your own desires, but just that desires are an inferior basis for decisions.
I'm sure I haven't answered your question, but I hope this is a satisfactory explanation.
Inferior in what sense? I don't see that there's any other sensible basis for the decisions we make, regardless of outcome.
Adhering to a reasoned system of values sounds fundamentally like a driving desire in itself; some desires are simply less tangible than others.
For me for example, it was switching countries for which I had no emotional desire, I knew it would be hard, I will lose bunch of friends, but in the long run, it will help me in many ways. I can hardly name this decision as desire to move.
Looking back, I was more than 100% correct since it was probably best decision of my life despite all the drawbacks. But if I would listen only/mainly to my emotions, I would stay where I was before.
The thing is, I can do many/most decisions in my life on purely rational level (or so I like to think). I don't see this behavior around me much, in fact it's pretty rare. Same goes for opinions and attitudes - emotions change, cold hard facts remain the same (I must sound very unemotional, which is not true at all - I just can separate the pleasure of enjoying emotions from them taking control and making me do stupid/irrational decisions... don't know how to describe it better).
It definitely takes a certain type of individual, and is a pointless career if you don't care about job satisfaction. But also keep in mind, job satisfaction means you provide a service where you make people happy, and can interact with your guests and see their happiness every day. You're not just a cog in a giant machine extracting money from advertisers or whatever.
Speaking as someone who's worked in both roles professionally.
Can someone please explain to me how this isn't extortion and bribery?
Easy: it's part of the "pay per use" idea that a lot of people seem to think that government should have. Just like express toll lanes or a $7 express bus along side a $3.25 local with three times as many stops, if you want something and don't care how long it takes, choose the low- or no-cost option. If you want it RIGHT DANG NOW, choose the high-cost option.
It's not bribery, it's just business...and people seem to think that government should operate like a business, so we get this fee-for-service setup.
It would be that if your tax money wasn't already paying for the guy's job. I see it as blatant bribery.
The taxes pay for a certain pace of work. Faster work requires more parallelism (more employees or better software) and thus more taxes.
It's a two-tiered system that favors those with more resources to expend, but it's not bribery.
To wit: "Would you like fries with that?"
Either way, somebody's gotta pay the bill.
Charging a service fee directly based on the additional cost to the agency, that goes to the agency to pay the costs rather than benefiting a decision-maker personally isn't extortion or bribery.
Now, one can certainly debate whether such user fees are a good idea, but that's a different question.
I guess that's another way of describing NIMBY. Focusing only on the short term pennies society misses the overall value in actually having proper capacity for growth and spike uses.
It's that same kind of decision that tries to use overtime from other shifts to cover the gap of a worker's vacation (instead of actually having enough coverage that vacation is built in). I suspect the same effect also contributes to shafting part time workers who "can't get hours" or who get massively screwed (because they're not friends with the boss doing the scheduling).
Furthermore almost any endeavor that requires permitting takes a lot of time and a lot of waiting. Paying a few hundred dollars to make it happen 2-4 weeks more quickly is a screaming deal, especially for a business.
SF's not the only one that does this either. Delaware, for instance, offers one-hour expedited filing for some things if you're willing to pay $1000 ( https://corp.delaware.gov/expserv.shtml).
The very way they move someone up to the front of the line is by pushing other things aside, and possibly having folks work overtime to finish those very things no time. It would be reasonable to charge for such a thing. It really isn't much different from paying an extra fee to get a package more quickly or paying an extra fee to skip lines at airports or theme parks.
Anyways, it costs from about $50,000 to $1,000,000 depending on the brand and the size of the room. Averaging around 100k for a non mom-n-pop sit-down place
Mine was about $40k, but it's tiny
Boneta (which was award-winning and loved) was cheap at around $70k
A big Boston Pizza, which is not a great place to eat, is gonna cost $200k+ or so, and a big Cactus Club could hit a mil
A higher price doesn't mean a better restaurant. In fact, I'd say a strict budget can make it more appealing due to creativity
But if you don't blow up, the rent will kill you. My friend ran a good place, but it wasn't busy enough to pay the $30k/month rent
Is that net and your take home?
10% margin seems great for a restaurant, especially if that's after paying the owner. I've worked in management in restaurants (diners, nothing fantastic but a great way to help pay for school) and profit margins in the low-to-mid single digits before paying the owner is not uncommon.
The real question, here, is what in the world is a Boston Pizza? Boston is known for many things -- baked beans, Sam Adams Lager, clam chowder -- but pizza is not one of them...
It's owned by one of the Canadian Dragon's Den (Shark Tank) Dragons. It's very generic, but at least consistent
That is a very, very high unit cost, even if SF is costly (but the US$ 8,000 month of rent seems to me like "appropriate" and all in all in line with "common" market values).
There is no reference to the number of seats for the new restaurant that I could find, but judging from:
> In the end, the 24 burnt orange leather chairs, 13 wood sushi bar stools, and nine tables — finished with the Japanese wood burning shou sugi ban method — set him back $19,760.
It should be 24+9=33 seats, which makes it an extremely small restaurant.
More than 20,000 dollars per seat is more than "high" as I see it it borders to "crazy".
A friend in the business says that's usually the second restaurant business someone opens.
Do you have any insight into why so many people buy lunch instead of bringing it? I've had a desk job for about 20 years now and I think I've bought lunch maybe 10 times when for some reason I wasn't able to make my lunch that day. It seems to me that buying lunch is more expensive and a person will probably eat more calories. I can't imagine it is a time issue, I probably spend less than 5 minutes putting a lunch together every day. That is far less than the time required to go somewhere for lunch. I assume it also isn't an issue of wanting to get away from the desk - most office places I've seen have lots of places a person can go and eat.
Price: Within reason, who cares? I don't have a wife or kids or any obligations really. What good is a six figure salary if I have to micromanage what I'm spending on food?
Calories: Diets don't work, so who cares? If the meal is too big to finish then I'll take half home for dinner, like I did today.
Time: IDK if you eat a cold turkey sandwich for lunch every single day or what, but it would probably take me 30-60 minutes to make the things I often eat for lunch, if I even had the ingredients. I don't have the benefit of hours of kitchen prep before the restaurant opens.
Getting away: This is a big part of it actually. Not just leaving my desk, but leaving the office entirely. Walking around the downtown, remembering what it's like to be a human being in the sunlight.
I realize these answers may not match your lifestyle but I'm just trying to give the insight you asked for, from a person who does this.
This mentality always blows me away and I am genuinely curious.
Has it not occurred to you that if you spend less, you can work less? (i.e. part time or retire sooner)
I cut things like this out of my spending, now I work a couple of years then travel a couple of years, first time I drove to South America, now I'm driving around Africa.
I find the type of travel you describe stressful. I also don't like the insecurity of part-time work. Maybe I'll feel differently later, but at age 31 that lifestyle is just not for me.
The choices were:
* 1 work day allocated to making/eating 20 personally made meals a month
* 2 work days allocated to eating 20 professionally meals a month.
Factoring in time, variety, and the fact that professional meals taste better than mine - yes, I absolutely eat out most days. I'll pinch pennies on bigger items like car insurance or rent, but food was simply a good cost-benefit trade off.
YMMV; cost-benefit is subjective.
And, uhh, most fixed-salary programmers don't have great options for spending an extra hour a week and winding up with more cash.
In my opinion, eating out is definitely a luxury. If/when I get serious about saving more money, cooking my own meals is absolutely the first thing to do.
I am committed to ~160 work hours / month. Of that, I spend 10 work hours buying lunch - versus spending 2 work hours and 5 personal hours making my own lunch. Spending 8 work hours to buy 5 personal hours is worthwhile for me.
The notion of "retirement" is a quaint one.
A typical week of lunches for me is one meal out with coworkers (~$15), three meals at the work cafeteria ($6-8, we'll assume $8), and one day WFH that we won't count. Average cost of $9.75 per meal, and no time invested. If I was taking my lunch, I'd probably be looking at $2-3 worth of food per day, and at least 15 min of prep time per day; more if you count extra time needed for grocery shopping and so on. I'm not pulling in a fat SV 6 figure salary, but even so my hourly rate is upwards of $40 per hour, so the meal prep time alone is equal to what I'm spending on lunch.
Personally, I'd rather have the time than the money. YMMV.
I figure I've been able to save an extra $25,000 since I started consistency bringing my lunch ten or so years ago.
Also, self-made lunch isn't free. It's cheaper, but it's not 100% cheaper. The difference isn't between $10 and $0, but between $10 and, say, $4. A lot cheaper, but it lowers the 'saved' amount (at the cost of adding in shopping + preparing labour)
That's enough for two people to fly from Los Angeles to Paris, stay a week in a 4-star hotel, and fly back. Or to buy the highest spec Macbook Pro, every year, with change. In a year and a half, it's enough to buy a used BMW convertible.
Yes, buying lunch is a "luxury", but a small, daily one. Don't make me bring Orwell on food into this..
I do like the idea of going travelling, but you're not going to do it by cutting out lunch (unless it's something pricier like a proper sit-down lunch with waiters and drinks). Effectively you're moving your hedonism around so you can take it all in one go, rather than day-to-day.
I pay ~$50 for 5/14 meals a week. I'm happy with that. I also spend a grand total of 120/month on transportation costs (includes costs of car, maintenance, gas, and insurance).
People have different priorities.
Umm, eating less than your caloric need makes you lose weight. Eating more makes you gain weight.
If you're implying that calorie restriction isn't an effective way of losing and controlling body fat then I'd like a source for this wild and absurd claim which counters absolutely mountains of evidence.
It does make a difference in the quality of the food you get if it is home-made vs restaurant/snack bar/cafeteria, even in Germany where the meals are not ridiculously large as in the US.
It's not a time issue, it's an organization and mental energy issue.
At $15/day, 200 days per year, it costs around $3k/yr, which really isn't that much when you consider tech salaries and the benefits it brings. The only downside is I have to be hyper conscious about eating healthy since meals out are optimized for taste, not health (i.e. lots of butter and salt and other stuff that makes it taste really good but not particularly good for me to eat).
I'm one of a handful of people at my office who never brings lunch and for me it's all about getting away from my desk leaving the office building, getting a walk in and looking for something interesting to eat. I'll often walk to one of the places where food trucks tend to congregate and see if there's something good there. Sometimes I'll take the chance to try out that new restaurant I know I'll never get to otherwise. Yes, it costs a fair bit, but eating a brought lunch in the lunch room would destroy the entire joy of lunch for me.
Presumably she will never use that technique with the medium again.
A couple golden quotes about the same subject:
“I was very excited when the chairs came and then everyone I showed them to hated them. Like everyone. They either hated the color of leather, or they hated the design, or both,”
“A lot of people are going to hate the design. It’s not for everyone, and I understand that. But the feeling of the restaurant is so important to me and I wanted to be 100 percent involved in every aspect,”
It's not a flattering article... laid bare, it seems to depict a man who obsessed over decisions outside his competency, and paid out the nose for self-indulgent decoration.
Having delicious food makes people forgive a lot when it comes to comfort or decor. And just maybe having hideous chairs and walls would help you stand out in the minds of customers.
I hate to be this guy, but it feels like a perfect #1 example of why startups fail -- he basically designed restaurant for HIMSELF.
I honestly wish him good luck of cloning himself 100,000 times and being happy to eat at his own place and pay for each bill to return $700k of initial investment.
"But then when people saw them in the space, they liked them."
"By paying a company $5,000 to secure his beer-and-wine license, Tortosa was able to skip the work himself of that particularly involved process, which includes minutiae like mailing notices to every single resident within 500 feet of the restaurant. For Robin, the company mailed out 586 notices."
Plus you have to deal with the fact that some of those residents might actually object to your business opening. Even if they don't, your company probably still needs somebody who can show up at a meeting, greet the people in power by name and convincingly reassure everyone you're not secretly trying to open a nightclub and pretending it's a sushi spot.
Raise a bunch of cash, go into a location that has so much wrong with it, blow literally all the cash plus $1k just setting up furniture and permits...
Why wouldn't you find a restaurant that just went under and buy out the lease? Take over the kitchen in place (buying the equipment from the bankrupt owner who just wants out), do a revamp on the sitting area, and spend pennies on the dollar compared to this? Added advantage that all the zoning and permits are already complete?
Omakase courses $79-$179. The profit margin of a successful restaurant is around 5%, so he's going to need >100,000 customers at $100/head just to pay off the $700k he's put in.
You turn over fewer tables with more expensive food, more staff, more real estate, more everything. Then the landlord raises your rent, sucks out all the profit, and you're done.
Also it was nice to see vegetarian options in the menu. A couple of times I've been in situations were there was one vegetarian person in the group so we would have to skip over restaurants that don't offer even a single vegetarian dish.
There used to be a time when people would just eat and it was far less exhausting finding a restaurant.
(I live in the bay area)
But yes, you're right, landlords raise rent, and restaurants often move out because of it.
This makes me very angry. This is approaching the corruption say in India that Modi is trying to get rid of where every local official requires a bribe for them to do their job. I hope this kind of behavior is severely punished.
Edit: A commenter posted http://sf-fire.org/file/2156 which shows that this is an official policy. I can't edit my parent comment now, but I am fine with this.
Lost of engineering contractors do work on the side.
A couple years ago I invested in a new restaurant in SF. I believe the total amount spent as of opening ended up around $400k, maybe a little more.
Sadly, it folded after about a year. Restaurants are difficult, especially in a hyper-competitive market like SF. I probably wouldn't invest in one again, even if it was being built by a team with previous restaurant successes. There are just too many variables, and SF is over-saturated with restaurants.
Honestly I'm excited by the crockery and interiors. The chairs don't look comfortable but I would give this restaurant a shot.
What I don't understand is the overzealous budget Mr Tortosa has in this project. In my opinion it would be wiser to spend a lot less on the restaurant and slowly upgrade it over the next couple of months or years. Also, by the looks of it they could have easily shaved off couple of 10 grand just by properly planning and anticipating the license wait period.
That to be honest looks like someone threw a bucket of paint on the wall and let it all drip down.
Why do people tolerate this kind of government? It seems like this ridiculously Byzantine process is filled with too much discretionary power, ripe for abuse.
On another note, why is paper being used at all?
Final total: $701,095
Seeing the city of SF totally fuck up over and over on things as simple as "when is the street outside going to be under construction" is absurd.