Read this: http://ea-spouse.livejournal.com/274.html
Lots of people have that environment but then get compensated a lot more to deal with it (unlike EA).
Go ask folks you know who have been in the workforce for a decade, they will most assuredly tell you that the different between $100K and $110K is $0. Even the difference between $100K and like $140K is still fairly marginal when you compare it to the other things you may or may not be giving up. I mention a bunch of those things to consider in my post.