This looks really interesting. I'm fascinated by gender dichotomy and how different my experiences would be with just a different chromosome.
There's far less than one chromosome's worth of difference between me and a orangatan.
"Just a chromosome" is like saying "just an extra brain"
Anyway, it could be interpreted as "If my parents had a girl instead of me, what it would be like to be she".
I don't like when correctness is sacrificed for emotional engagement.
My understanding was that when people make "If I were X" statements, they are referring to having a conscious experience different than what they are currently experiencing. They would still be themselves by virtue of being the conscious observer in that context.