If the question were "There's Kid 1 and Kid 2, each independently selected with random gender and birth-day-of-the-week. Out of those cases where Kid 1 is a boy born on Tuesday, what proportion are cases where Kid 2 is a girl?", then the answer would indeed be a straightforward 50%; the status of Kid 1 is entirely independent of the status of Kid 2.
But that's not the question. The question is "There's Kid 1 and Kid 2, each independently selected with random gender and birth-day-of-the-week. Out of those cases where at least one (either one, and possibly both) of Kid 1 and Kid 2 is a boy born on Tuesday, what proportion are cases where at least one of Kid 1 and Kid 2 is a girl?".
This is very different, and of course just drawing out the possibilities (all 2 * 7 * 2 * 7 equiprobable-by-stipulation choices of gender and birth-day-of-the-week for Kid 1 and Kid 2) and circling which pairs of subsets are the relevant ones for the two questions reveals the difference, the probabilities for either question elementarily calculable in this way by basic counting.