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> Sorry, but if you are OK with the term "mansplaining" then you are OK with sexist behaviour.

Having a term for a particular pattern of sexist behavior which is observed to be common is not the same as being okay with sexist behavior.

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You miss the point: as you note, there's a sexist behaviour observed in some men. You have to choose a word to describe this behaviour. If you choose a word that suggests that a whole category has that certain behaviour, then you are being sexist.

Let me show that with a simple example.

Some women are always complaining and whining. You have to find a word for this behaviour. If you choose a word (femmwhining, maybe?) that implies that all women are always complaining and whining, then you are being sexist.

The problem is not just people talking over people in general, the problem is specifically men talking over women, so a term that encapsulates that gender dynamic is appropriate.

A term that is gender neutral would be inaccurate and useless for drawing attention to the problem.

No good reason for being sexist, in my opinion. Even assuming you are right, two wrongs (or two sexisms) do not make a right.

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