A reasoned response is a red flag?
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This is similar to how telling people an organization is a meritocracy leads to more discrimination against women: http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.2189/asqu.2010.55.4.5...
Just like the white man doesn't know what it is like to be a woman or a minority, the minorities and women don't know what it is like to be a white man.
Getting to the truth (finding out the severity of mistreatment/inequality, if there is any) and fostering understanding between both sides would be for the good of society. This would involve listening to both experiences.