Write down (in great detail) every single childhood dream that you can remember. ANYTHING in life that you have dreamed of doing. WRITE WRITE AND WRITE until your hand falls off.
From there organize these "dreams" into goals of what you can do now and what you can aim for in the future.
I did this on January 1st this year, and so far this has been the greatest year of my life. Trust me, always side with your heart. Your childhood fantasies represent the real you.
Since completing this exercise I have learned how to scuba dive (dream of swimming with fish), sky dive (dream of flying), surf (love surfing!), learned "pick up" from a master (always wanted to have women in my life), in the process of learning how to code and start my own startup (my childhood dream wasn't to be an astronaut or fire fighter, I wanted to be an inventor!).