thats true offcourse, but those are examples of 100s of years of history. Any armed conflict I know about now is initiated by men.
And look at the average interest of men and women. Games they play, movies they watch, not many men like to see Bridget Jones and not may women like to see Vietnam war movies :)
I would assume, on average, women start a lot less conflict. Non of these woman are at war as far as I know : http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/03/08/women-leader...