Out of curiosity, I'm interested in how folks would do the "in this not that" folder query. At a gut shot, I'd assume that diff would be used. I'm about to dig through the find man page to see if it has something directly to help.
sort file1 file2 file2 | uniq -u
(double file2 is not a typo :) comm -23 <(sort file1) <(sort file2)