Do you live in a big city? If so, the key is to get out of the crowd/competition. I'd recommend you search at a 50-100 mile radius from where you live. Drive away, make friends outside of town and go hang out with them. Girls are so much better outside of the cities, less buddy-like, less self-centric. More family oriented and also they won't play any game. Plenty of pretty chicks in the middle of nowhere you'll be surprised. Also, you'll be the outsider in the group. The guy who comes once in a while which will make you more attractive and more desirable. Put your self in the right spot, it's that simple.