As the author of a tool for GR calculations (grtensor on github) I've been collecting intro GR books. I did my PhD in GR 20 years ago and am getting back into it. My impressions so far:
Carroll is excellent.
Hartle is also great - very physics first approach.
Stephani - Good intro with some material not found in others
Shutz (the book I used in grad school) - solid intro
MTW looks great on the book shelf, very useful every time I dip into it, a bit daunting to go front to back
Zee - looks interesting, I'm only on p10
Wald - I seldom pull this off the shelf.
As a second book, I highly recommend Poisson "A relativists toolkit".
Another great resource is "Exact space-times in Einstein's General Relativity" (Griffiths and Podolsky)