1) It's just a syntax thing... It's still possible to make an understandable program through good style
2) I don't have anything.
3-6) I've heard Racket is a good spiritual successor to Lisp, complete with external libraries and a broad(er) userbase.
* Lisp does look quite a bit like stuff you're used to:
foo(bar(arg, (foo (bar arg <foo><bar>arg
arg2), arg2) arg2</bar>
xyzz()); (xyzz)) <xyzz/></foo>
It has familiar features like mutable lexical and global variables, control constructs for selection and iteration and so on. There is even a form of goto.
Aggregate objects like structures, class instances, lists, vectors and so on are actually referential values, like in many languages.
It is said that Javascript is a dialect of Lisp. If you understand how Javascript evaluates expressions, that goes a long way toward Lisp. Ruby is sometimes called MatzLisp, after the surname of its creator, for very good reasons. Lisp has inspired many features found in other languages. The comma, ?:, && and || operators in C appear to be Lisp inspired, as is the very idea of "expression statements": for instance when we call a function in C as a statement, it is an expression with a value, which is discarded, just like in Lisp.
Lisp lists lack encapsulation; they are not opaque bags with which you do things like (add list item). That takes getting used to: always capturing the result value of a list construction. It doesn't take that much getting used to for programmers coming from C, who understand a bunch of ways of representing lists, including representations in which a null pointer represents an empty list.
A container-like list data type is easily written in Lisp, either as a function-based ADT with a couple of functions around small state struct (or perhaps cons cell or vector), or full blown OOP.
You're conflating two properties: lack of encapsulation and functional update. It's true that lists expose their internal structure as conses, and it's also true that they're usually updated functionally (requiring, as you say, capturing the result), but these properties don't have to go together. It's entirely possible, and arguably desirable, to have functional collections -- where instances are immutable, but which provide operations for creating new instances from existing ones -- which are also opaque data types; see for example FSet [0]. Conversely, it's possible to have fully-mutable lists that expose their internal structure; you just have to wrap each list in a mutable cell. It would be ugly, and I don't know why you'd do it, but it's entirely possible.
Lisp list aren't ... whatever you call those stateful collection things that you can mutate with a list.add(42) type code that people are used to in a lot of scripting languages nowadays. That will trip up people who are used to that sort of thing.