Its hard to admit standards of living are decreasing. There is def a lot of blame to go around. I agree one should not be disdainful of people who are different.
This red team vs blue team logic is getting us no where.
Then again, there are plenty of caveats: the CPI overstates inflation, there are things on the market today that no amount of money could have bought in 1980, etc.
And if you're going back to 1970: $40k in 1970 dollars could buy you $250k of stuff today.
Median household income in 1980 was $16,671 [0] so someone making $40,000 was a high earner. In 2014 it was $53,013.
Can you cite some specific examples of the authors disdainful attitude?