Moral of the story: rich people will always want to show off that they are rich.
Moral of the story: rich people will always want to show off that they are rich.
I think you mean, "Some rich people are insecure enough that they want to show off that they are rich."
Amex caters to this very well: they play the whole "prestige" thing but if you have a "higher-level" card for the benefits (platinum, black) they are happy to issue you an ordinary green one you can use so people won't guess your wealth.
What is the difference? I have always believed the terms to be synonyms, and the Wikipedia article for "charge card" does nothing to change that impression.
(http://www.nytimes.com/books/first/s/stanley-millionaire.htm...)
Edited to add the following paragraph.
The child post accurately points out that these families are not in the 1%.
A family at median household income ($51k) that mortgaged a median-priced home ($180k) and saved 15% for retirement starting from age 25 will have $856k in a 401k and the better part of their house's value in home equity around age ~57.
If they don't at least have the 401k balance, they're going to be in serious trouble before before they're dead (unless Social Security is still around).
The Millionaire Next Door describes the minimum behavior required to avoid falling out of the middle class over a lifetime.
It's about the kind of people who might buy tickets to the symphony once or twice in a lifetime. Not the kind of people who attend its fundraiser galas. 40%-ers, not 1%-ers.
So about double a movie + dinner.
Selection bias in your sample.
The richest person I've met used to drive a small twenty year old car. Could afford at least a few Bugattis or so.
The mansions and condos tend to be private and secluded. The vacations and galas won't necessarily appear on Instagram. But the truly rich are absolutely out their living large.
I'd argue they are less driven by a need to hoard more money (they already have more than they know what to do with), and more driven by a need to shape world affairs in business and politics while fulfilling noblesse oblige social expectations like philanthropy for the poor, the arts, etc.
They might drive around town in a Toyota, but their family name is in big bold letters on a building somewhere.