You will, on the other hand, find plenty of people with real reputations in the industry at stake (unlike yours, which is influenced not one whit by anything you say about disclosure) who will be happy to explain why "responsible disclosure" is damaging the industry. It's not even a hard argument to make. The dollar value of a reliable Windows remote is too high to pretend that bona fide researchers are the only people who will find them. Meanwhile, because product managers at large vendors are given the latitude to fix problems on the business' schedule instead of the Internet's, people get to wait 6-18 months for fixes to trivial problems.
Personally, without wading into "responsible" vs. "full" disclosure, I will point out that vulnerability research has made your systems more secure; the manner in which the vulnerabilities were uncovered has very little to do with it. You are more secure now because vendors and customers pay to have software tested before and after shipping it.
(My personal beliefs don't often enter the picture; I represent the interests of my clients, almost all of whom would rather fix things on their own schedule).
This is an issue that reasonable and responsible people disagree about.