Ask HN: Does anyone have any hacks for helping people who are chronically ill?

Hey All - my mom, fiance' and sister all suffer from autoimmune diseases. How it all came about is a long story... But I realize I'm probably not the only one to deal with this stuff so I wanted to reach out and ask the HN community about it.

I'm looking for software that can help with day to day life for chronically ill people, how to mentally support them, and really any kind of help. Trying to crowdsource it to some extent. :D