Either you're responding to the wrong person, or you did a very poor job at reading my comment. In case of the latter:
> Who is nitpicking here?
You and /u/colechristensen
> We are all just trying to help someone be more correct.
No one doubts the purity of your motives.
> The other responder to your comment is correct. It is entirely perceived and there is no real change in luminosity and thus brightness is the incorrect term.
No one disputes that the effect is perceived.
> I was offering my insight as both a graphic designer and amateur technical 3D artist with solid grasp of color theory and optics.
No one disputes your qualifications.
> Meanwhile you just butted in to tell me I'm wrong and I shouldn't tell other people they are wrong.
No one said you were wrong. I simply said that my experience is like that of /u/icelander and /u/pducks32 in that I perceive blue light to be brighter, which you disagreed with in your previous comment, but seem to agree with in this one. I didn't tell you not to correct other people, I said nit picking (i.e., correcting a minor discrepancy which isn't important, relevant, or otherwise causing confusion) is rarely helpful.
Interestingly, /u/Karunamon pointed us to the [Purkinje Effect][1] as an explanation for why blue light is perceived to be brighter, so perhaps you aren't correct despite your qualifications (I guess you espoused both sides of the argument, which would make you simultaneously correct and incorrect :p ). This certainly isn't my subject, so I'll leave you to sort it out on your own.
[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Purkinje_effect