The fact that a self-replicating RNA could have arisen given what we know of primordial earth is extremely convenient. Something different and unknown could have come first, but it would have to fit the bill of "can arise spontaneously" and "can self-replicate and pass down incremental modifications", which is very difficult to pull off. We also have good certainty that LUCA (last universal common ancestor) featured RNA.
I will also try to answer: what did the first organism eat? The concept of food/energy source doesn't apply so well to the first self-replicating RNA. The environment features constantly interacting bases, and the competition between self-replicating RNAs stems from this. The distinction between individual organisms and the environment isn't as clear-cut as what we know now. Through this competition, one of the first things to be acquired was probably a membrane. Eating can become possible and/or useful after you have a membrane, which also allows you to extend the environment in which you can thrive.