This question, or variants of it, comes up on electronics.stackexchange a LOT. It's rather hard to explain in a compact way. You can either start with metaphors (which collapse under examination) or the maths (which most readers find impenetrable).
Current is measured in amperes, which have two definitions:
"a unit of electric current equal to a flow of one coulomb per second"
"that constant current which, if maintained in two straight parallel conductors of infinite length, of negligible circular cross section, and placed 1 meter apart in vacuum, would produce between these conductors a force equal to 2 x 10-7 newton per meter of length"
Right away one of those definitions mentions charge (coulombs) and the other one doesn't. This is actually a better approach because while charge is usually carried by electrons, this is not always the case. Charge in semiconductors may be carried by "holes". Charge in batteries is carried by ions. Capacitors are usually considered to have a "displacement current" flow between the plates that has no carrier at all.
HOWEVER! For the purposes of the question here, we can skip all that and focus on the electrons in your appliances. Specifically, we can see that there's a complete loop between them and the substation/pole transformer feeding your house. You have no direct connection to the HV lines.
Perhaps you could say "the power company causes a magnetic force which moves the electrons in their transformer back and forth, which by electrostatics pushes the full loop of electrons in their and your wiring back and forth, which does useful work in your house".
Simple.