That's a deductive fallacy. Alive things need resources, but things that need resources are not necessarily alive.
A | B | A => B | ¬B => ¬A
T | T | T | T
T | F | F | F
F | T | T | T
F | F | T | T
My original point was that my parent was implicitly claiming that only living things need resources. That seemed absurd to me because of things like viruses, companies, governments, etc.