I think Apple's HomeKit deserves a mention here.
Has it been generally well received security-wise then?
Not a good solution in general.
Makes me curious about how that homebridge node thing makes it work.
Cynics will say it's a money grab, proponents will say it greatly reduces or eliminates the risk of buying something that will not work right. Apple sells itself on the ability of their things working right out of the box.
IIRC, it's been shown that a massive percentage of the Apple chargers for sale on Amazon are difficult to spot counterfeits. Some of those use dangerous electronic designs.
apple can definitely execute, though. it just has to execute the right thing.