Secondly, raising money is not related to succeeding. You will understand when you take a step back and watch 99% of the once-popular companies go out of business after raising millions of dollars.
I suggest you keep working on your thing on the side (if you're still passionate about it) and get a job. You can always quit and come back to fulltime on your thing when you see a glimmer of hope.
I am thinking of getting a contracting job so I can keep working on it on the side. I have been out of job for a long time so I don't even know where to start from.
What I found the hard way is that I cannot build a long term sustaining business out of mentoring. So investors did not want to get into it.
The users used it only for to get one time advice from mentors and then never came back. There was nothing viral about it.
I developed a good strategy to increase awareness of the product locally but failed to distribute it to the masses (I used Facebook Ads). If I had funds, I could have hired a growth hacker or a good marketing person to at least make people aware because if people don't know about it, they won't use it.
The product is still running. However I cannot invest my savings any more on it. Job is an option (I am in Silicon valley so there are plenty). But its so hard to leave everything I've built behind and go back to working for someone else :-((