> The beauty of React is that it forces you to think in a slightly different way. Vue seemed more accessible for a spaghetti code writer

This has been my experience too with React and Vuejs. React requires thorough planning beforehand to write good code. You need to plan the parent-children structure before you jump in. It's easy to write shitty code in react too if you jump in headfirst; resulting in the kind of "enterprise boilerplate" others are talking about in this thread. Personally, I am happy with React at the moment (and React Fiber let's you return an array of components, so no more wrapping your components around a span - yay!).