Git feels so local and thus vulnerable to theft, breakage, power outages etc.
Git feels so local and thus vulnerable to theft, breakage, power outages etc.
You seem to be hung-up on commits or have an inexplicable aversion (IMO) to committing to a private, expendable branch. Git made branching cheap and easy by design - you can go crazy on your private 'backup' branches without having to add detailed commit messages. When you are happy, you can rebase or squash merge into the 'real' branch with proper commit messages and delete the backup branch. This will not create a mess for collaborators or your Git history (after you've deleted the ephemeral branches).
As a matter of fact, you could create an alias for 'git sync' that does the above in the background, if you find the individual steps too tedious to manually type in.
When done, clean up the history[1], push to a different "real" branch for review. Delete wip-* branch.
Unless people have actively checked out your branch locally they shouldn't have any "mess" on their end. (They'll have a remote branch listed by "git branch -r", but all of those can be cleaned up periodically with a "git prune ...".)
I haven't heard any complaints so far. (I've been doing it this way for 4+ years, I think.)
[1] I usually find that it's easier to split/clean up after the feature is almost completely done and ready for review. When I'm "in the zone" I don't want to have to suddenly switch to the "cleaning up history" mode.