However, that is a definition I basically invented based on experience (i.e. How I imagine most people learn most of their vocabulary).
If it really has to be done in bulk to be spam-callable, what is the individual version of spam? Harassment?
Have you ever been introduced to someone via email? If that person wasn't expecting the introduction, did you spam him?
It's pretty absurd to expect every email should be "expected" by the recipient. Taken to the extreme, that means you could never email someone unless you'd emailed them before...
As for your second example, unsolicited and undesired introductions are spam. I'm shocked that you disagree. If you don't, you won't mind then if I introduce you to a few million of my friends?
This must be one of the most surreal and out of touch ideas that I have ever seen before but given 21.co's previous track record I guess that was to be expected.
However, here's my 2c (BusDev 2+ years): a cold call/email isn't worth a dollar in your case. If the audience (target market) is a group of let's say 1000 individuals, and I need 8 to 10 touches to get a single response... then I'm paying your service $10,000 to (in all probability) be told, "sorry, not interested".
It takes an immense amount time and energy 'beating the drum' to get anyone to notice you. I think it was Bezos who said that in this age, attention is the scarcest commodity. He's right.
Of course he's right. How else could the ad industry have turned into such a disaster?
I realize that they're likely automated but sometimes you just need to get me at the right moment in which I'm more likely to respond.
I have the same rule for cold-callers. If a vendor cold-calls me, I take a note of their business name, politely explain that I am ideologically opposed to this marketing method, and that I will never use their services because of their use of that method.
I've been doing this since the mid-90's. I like to be the change I want to see in the world :)
Occasionally I'll find something useful. And sure I could have found it on my own if I was searching for that specific problem but occasionally something new comes across that piques my curiosity. Even then I end up looking at competing products (love relying on Google's autocomplete to do "product vs" and seeing what shows up).
The spam game is getting better and better too - I wonder what they're going to look like in a few years with some help from ML. At that point they will look personal.
First, feedback like yours is rare and it doesn't give opportunity for follow-up, so there is no incentive to change.
Second, this comes off as tire-kicking to the company, just like the classic "I'd totally buy your product if you had Feature A/B/C" excuse to avoid having to say "not interested." If a business cold-calls heavily, and they receive this feedback often enough, the worst that will happen is that they work on developing a response to it, just like to any other objection.
Third, vendors know that you will consider them if they are the best option. They have been told no for more substantial reasons before and still gotten the account.
Because if vendors knew that the act of cold-calling or spamming would immediately exclude them, then they wouldn't do it.
I get your point that with just me doing it, this is ineffective because the vendors don't get enough feedback as to why they didn't get my business.
But I have no power to change other people's behaviour. I can only change my own and hope others see the world as I do.