If you mean part 2 of question 2: my answer would be "dF/dx = del F/del y dy/dx + del F/del y' dy'/dx; but we know del F/del y = d/dx(del F/del y'), so dF/dx = d/dx(del F/del y') dy/dx + del F/del y' dy'/dx, which by the product rule is d/dx(y' del F/del y'). Now integrate both sides."
If you mean part 3 of question 2: just substitute F(y, y') from (2.2) into (2.4).
> but we know del F/del y = d/dx(del F/del y')
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"del F/del y = d/dx(del F/del y')" is just the Euler-Lagrange equation.
The current notation is simply more flexible and easier to use, and it remains unambiguous because we have access to these two operators $\dfrac{\partial}{\partial x}$ and $\dfrac{d}{dx}$.
Furthermore while mathematicians pride themselves on rigor, I would bet that a lot of proofs require the reader to fill in incomplete steps and/or contain notational mistakes. Just try to imagine what kind of code you would end up with if you did not have access to a compiler and relied only on your logical reasoning for writing correct code. Even if the code was reviewed by other peers, who themselves do not have access to a compiler, they would miss some mistakes because, being familiar with the subject, their brain would fill in the correct meanings.