More Power:
- Cooperate in order to reach a successful outcome
- Lay out your intents explicitly, attempt nothing verging on deception
- Be yourself, we just want to help you
- Work hard to better yourself, we haven't done anything wrong. In the vast majority of cases, you have.
(Overall assertion is that of equality, and denial of a power/privilege imbalance, and that you should take responsibility for yourself.)
Less Power:
- Compete with the other party to reach an outcome desirable to you
- Strategically reveal information in order to effect the above
- Be yourself, but realize that the other party may not have your best interests in mind. They prioritize their best interests.
- Work hard to better yourself, but understand that the other side makes mistakes, misjudgments and may just as well be as error prone as you.
In any relationship where an imbalance exists we should be aware that both sides will have sharply differing views. But dating in particular, the concept of female privilege is a huge minefield. OP article's ideas have been tacitly admitted to me in person by women, but the large audience online suppresses women from admitting anything that might not reflect well upon themselves. I think she's speaking for a large amount of women who deny their privilege via silence. The general idea might be that privileged deny their privilege, whether it's through physical attributes, wealth, legislated authority, etc.