But imagining for a second that the story did somehow manage to get statistics and quantify the "mean"-ness of an individual, there would still be case for sexism being a factor that uniquely impacts women more negatively.
For example, many people are somewhat "mean" but 1. Are these people only mean to women? 2. Are they "meaner" to women than men? 3. Are they mean in different ways to women? (ie, sexual harassment is usually only towards women)
Interesting thoughts though. I wonder though if emphasizing a more radically respectful culture in general would make a difference. It would definitely curb the resentment that men feel over stuff like diversity hiring goals, but without data, we do not know if it would meaningfully make women and minorities experiences any better.