1 I think we all understand that there are are degrees of monopoly power:one company might be a pure monopoly, a few big players (known as an oligopoly) can behave cooperatively (like a monopoly) or engage in price wars (with the objective of driving out the weaker player).
2 There are lots of businesses with high fixed costs and low marginal costs - tech is not that different from others in that regard.
3 Tech, does have one key difference - the network effect.
In other words, a company's history in building up a large network of customers may matter more than how efficiently it operates today
4 The dynamic effects of concentrated industries (as I mentioned earlier) are complicated. There is no guarantee at all that the result will be optimal.
5 We have nice examples of this in collusive behaviour by the major tech companies in their hiring policies.
6 There are other alternatives to the status quo than, as in your example, of reducing companies to one hundredth of their former size.