Shared memory multithreading is fastest because explicitly communicating all of your tasks' inputs and outputs without any caching will transfer more data than using caches where several tasks can read the same thing from the same place. Cache coherence is not only built on shared nothing-message-passing under the hood, it's built on caches. If you cache your messages/accesses/whatever somewhere, you'll have coherence problems, if you don't, you'll have efficiency problems.
Just because you have a language with a native primitive doesn't mean this language doesn't throw efficiency out the window by building things around this primitive. Say, plenty of languages have cons cells for all the wrong reasons (I think Clojure is the one language that escaped this in its lineage) and still cons sells are fundamentally inefficient no matter what you do in hardware, this part I elaborated on in TFA. Just like having a language with a primitive solving the halting problem doesn't solve the halting problem, you can't have a language with arbitrary primitives and a magic machine making the sw+hw system as efficient as any alternative.