What matters, and what lenders look at, is debt serviceability. Lenders don't want principal paid back, ideally you just keep paying interest for life.
Let's say median household:
Income: $4000/mo
Rent: $1500/mo
Other necessities: $2000/mo
Let's say $500/mo "disposable." It's from this that the interest needs to be paid to service the debt on that $12,600 (actually, that's per person; there are 2.53 people in the median household, so $32k debt). What's the average interest rate? Maybe 10%? That's $266/month just for interest.
Now, economy goes into recession, consumer loses income and will first stop paying unsecured debt (credit cards, student loans), then auto loan until repo, then finally mortgage. And keep in mind median American doesn't have a lot of liquid savings to cushion. If there's anything, it's in 401k or home equity - and now is not a good time to sell. But many are forced to, further increasing supply when buyers are scared off, so prices keep declining.
Everything starts to be sold and assets get repriced. More seized cars at auction. More foreclosed houses. Banks restrict credit. Everything spirals down, quickly. Cashed up HNW investors willing to take the risk buy up firesale assets with cash and hold them. Maybe prices recover eventually, but now more assets are held by fewer people, and you've moved further into inequality.
The US is very much a credit driven economy. That's why the credit crunch of 2007 had such a severe impact.
This just happened a decade ago, and it seems people have already forgotten what it's like.