Not a Black Chair
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I would say what went wrong here is that the others weren't fired as well - not that she shouldn't have been. That sounds shitty, but I think the most egregious inequality here is that the others got to stay employed. No one did anything right.
Unfortunately I think this is just tech for you. I've witnessed so much sexism in this industry, I just don't know what to do anymore (besides ask people to stop it).
Still, the major theme here seems to be a complete lack of professionalism from all involved (seriously, who tries to set up two new coworkers?) To me that screams "culture problems" coming from the top, not handful of bad apples. When your department is run like a Greek house, don't be surprised when the employees act like frat boys and sorority girls.
“Nope, my arm is brown and the chair is black,” I quipped awkwardly.
She replied, “No. They’re the same color.”
The room was silent.
Yowzers. So is "Kelly" still working at Squarespace? I'm not sure I could take someone seriously as a co-worker - and certainly not as a manger - after saying something like that in a meeting.
Given how subjective and variable human sight is, its perfectly reasonable that Kelly may just not have seen her there.
Your comments are why working in tech is so hard for people. No matter what happens there's someone there to defend the status-quo.
- The author's skin tone: http://amelielamont.com/about/
That woman, wearing a blue shirt, isn't someone that I'd reasonably expect to blend into a black chair, even with a room darkened to make a projector more visible and a half-blind manager.
Keep in mind that the author had also spoken up earlier in the meeting, offering to take on another supervisor's project during his vacation.
That said, there are circumstances where a person with dark skin tone is hard to see. I once came very close to running over a pedestrian with dark pants, dark jacket, dark hat, and dark skin crossing a poorly-lit suburban street on a dark winter's evening; fortunately for both of us, the roadway was dry.
I'll agree. Mistakes can be made in the moment, but they're worse if they aren't corrected after some reflection.
> That said, there are circumstances where a person with dark skin tone is hard to see.
My wife is darker than the author seems to be, based on her photo. At night, if she's (my wife) wearing dark clothes and comes out of a dark room unexpectedly...well, we'll say that she has startled me a few times. Several circumstances have to come together at the same time for that to happen that I don't usually associate with sitting in a conference room for a meeting, though. So while the statement's true, it's hard to imagine a work situation that it'd apply to.