Geeks should take lessons from Jazz musicians on how to flame properly.

Perhaps ... but it also takes inspiration. Has anyone in the world of software and systems engaged in an analogous act of hacking "necrophilia" or defilement?

Also note that many acts of hacking defilement get their just punishment in due course, when the software doesn't work, the company fails, etc. Feedback of that incisive a nature isn't as prevalent in the musical world.