The issue is not that data loss occurred
per se, nor is it that destructive accidents and oversights don't happen to senior people. The issue is that GitLab's surprisingly amateur and sloppy practices, many of which are blatantly obvious to people with a medium amount of ops experience, have bled through every aspect of this incident since it first occurred.
They didn't just lose data. They lost data and all of their actual backups were invalid. They had to restore from a system image that was taken for non-backup purposes, and, as luck would have it, was able to function as a backup in this instance. Not having working backups for months-long stretches rises to the level of negligence or incompetence from whomever is supposed to be supervising their infrastructure.
We all know that backups in the general sense are crucial and that they don't get done nearly often enough, but being lazy about backing up the home directory on your laptop is a lot different than allowing the company to sit without working backups for months.
I'm not saying that this doesn't happen to senior engineers who are victims of bad management, but qualified leadership doesn't allow it.
On top of that, it emerges that this condition occurred because they don't have good practices around when to log in to the master database server, they remove binary data directories before they pull down new copies, they don't know how to configure PgSQL and have to do a full standby resync after a couple of hours of high DB load because they don't have WAL archiving, replication slots, or even a semi-sane wal_keep_segments/min_wal_size set, they have no automated backup sanity check (let alone a schedule of human-verified backup restores) and other inadequate monitoring and alarming practices, and do I really need to go on? I could, because in this thread alone there are several other major faux pas mentioned.
I'm not sure how many of these sloppy, amateur errors you want to allow to stack on top of each other before you start thinking that GitLab is semi-responsible for this and that it's not within the typical senior-person margin of error, but it passed that threshold a long time ago for me.
GitLab severely underpays for any candidate not based in a top 10 real estate market, talking like 50-60% under market, because they punish candidates based on how much cheaper the real estate in their home market is than in New York City. The consensus is that this impedes their ability to obtain good talent and I would say that the events of the last couple of weeks have demonstrated that with spectacular clarity.
At least in my case, the impression has nothing to do with their operation as a remote company -- I'm a full-time remote worker and I learned about GitLab's atrocious salary formulae when I was checking them out as a potential employer because I wanted to move to an all-remote company (instead of the partially-remote company I work in now).
I'm sure that most of GitLab's engineers are good engineers relative to their experience levels. I'm also sure a small handful who accidentally align with their salary formula are senior in their particular fields. And I'm thirdly sure that no one with any inkling of experience in running a stable, reliable, production-level service and infrastructure has been allowed any fractional amount of influence in their infrastructure and deployment procedures.