People get mad (especially people driving vans/small trucks), but it's disgraceful that people are driving multi-tonne vehicles and are completely oblivious to their surroundings.
I'm glad your daughter is ok.
People get mad (especially people driving vans/small trucks), but it's disgraceful that people are driving multi-tonne vehicles and are completely oblivious to their surroundings.
I'm glad your daughter is ok.
1) A car comes within centimeters of side swiping me and knocking me down. They don't even notice I'm there.
2) They stop at the next traffic light, I tap on the window to tell them to be more careful.
3) They get angry at me.
4) Other drivers see this interaction and soon you see articles in newspapers complaining about "militant cyclists"
This isn't rare, either - there's at least 1 shouted interacted per week.
It's no wonder my friends are afraid to get on the roads/their bikes.
Pretending that there aren't extremely toxic cyclists doesn't help the problem.
Cyclists don't have to be toxic for the whole setup to not work, they just have to not obey the same laws that are in place for cars. Where I live, I'm more likely to be hit by a cyclist on a pedestrian crossing than by a car.
And no, cyclists don't often ride between lines of cars. Some cyclists do that. Just like some drivers are reckless jerks.
Every group has bad actors. I'd even wager both groups -- cyclists and drivers -- have the same percentage of morons.
You seem to be claiming that all cyclists have to be saints "for the setup to work", which is bizarre. The rules in most cities in the US clearly prioritize cars over people. As plenty of other cities around the world have demonstrated, changing those priorities changes behavior.
My new form of riding in the city is to be 100% defensive all the time, but not in a give up my rights as a cyclist way. I assume cars will do dumb things (because they always do) so I avoid their blind spots, never pass on the right, alsways take the entire lane so that a car can not pass you if it's not safe (only do this in the city), when traffic is slow assume cars will jump quickly around in lanes etc.
Many people get angry and defensive when you yell at or reprimand them. The goal is to try and inform them of their poor driving without increasing anger on both sides. Now I do this with a look, and no anger, and people tend to respond to that apologetically.