Sick but Not Sick
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This finally explains why I find medical care in the US so different than what I had in my birth country (Brazil).
My US experience so far (multiple times): go to the doctor and have 15-20 minutes tops to talk to them (and most of that time is taken by a nurse and then waiting), describe symptoms and general observations I've made about them (I listen a lot to my body). With almost no discussion or explanation, I'm quickly diagnosed with something that almost always sounds bogus to me and I'm prescribed some medicine with no explanation of what it does.
Back in Brazil: go to the doctor and have 30-45 minutes booked. No nurse. Explain symptoms. Doctor asks further questions. I answer and offer general observations. Doctor writes down everything. Doctor appears to think about it. Doctor offers a few possible explanations as to what is going on and what is the course of action from then on. Asks what I think about it. If I'm prescribed something, I receive a full explanation of what the medicine does, and if I'm OK with taking it.
Another major difference I've observed is that doctors in the US tend to attempt to treat things starting from the least concerning ailment. I guess that's why there are so many stories of cancer patients going to doctor after doctor who treat them for minor things, only for a cancer diagnostic to be made when the disease has progressed a lot further. Back in Brazil, the doctors I went to would usually go a completely different route: "it's probably <insert minor/treatable problem here>", but let's rule out the sinister stuff first [like cancer]."
I love 99% of my life in America when compared to Brazil, and have no plans to go back. But going to the doctor here is definitely a subpar experience compared to what I had there.
Personally when I moved to the US, I had one experience like what you describe, at MGH (best hospital in the world! blah blah blah).
I said screw that, went to a local practice (though still a big one, not an independent) instead. My experience over 3 different doctors (my main one and some specialists) closely match your second one. Been happy since then.
The one exception has been GI doctors. Since everyone in the US has digestion related issues because of the crap they eat, GIs are overloaded and ends up following a near assembly line process with patients. That sucks.
I've definitely had bad doctors and you have to treat them like any professional (Lawyer, Architect, Engineer) who may have very limited time, but certainly they aren't all bad.
But vitamin deficiency is a relatively simple test, and often done in northern climates. Both my wife and I got one done as a standard blood screen by our doctor; my wife was much more deficient^ than I was, and was told to take a fairly-high vitamin D supplement for awhile. (I was just told to go outside more often.)
^one of the few times I get to say that
In the US you often have to ask for it because the Vitamin D test is expensive and not done as a matter of course.
"I'd like to encourage anyone feeling depressed to take a good, hard look at their diet and to consider the possibility that they lack some essential nutrients.
I'm not saying that a poor diet or lack of nutrients will necessarily be the only or even the main cause of depression, but these factors could have an impact (sometimes a profound impact) on the severity or frequency of depression.
For most of my life I've had a pretty poor diet, and while I knew diet could affect one's mood, I really didn't realize how profound an effect it could have until poor health recently forced me to make drastic changes in my diet and to consider and study the potential effects of diet on mental and physical health.
What I learned was that many, many nutrient deficiencies could have very severe consequences on one's mental (not to mention physical) health -- including depression, dementia, and even death. Symptoms of a nutrient deficiency are not always obvious, and some of them take a long time to manifest -- so long that they kind of sneak up on you and you could almost feel like what you're experiencing is "normal" or just the way you are (ie. depressed, just because you have a negative outlook on life).
Once I improved my diet and started taking supplements for essential nutrients which my diet still lacked, I felt so much better, and have had much more energy than I'm used to, don't need as much sleep, and my mood and motivation have dramatically improved.
I now firmly believe that many people who suffer mental issues, including depression, may be malnourished or nutritionally deficient in some way. Taking one's diet seriously, reading up on it, and improving it could really change your life."
I noticed my depression seemed to correlate with my poor digestive health -- chronic constipation and frequent food poisoning. Once I started supplementing probiotics and eating a small amount of kimchi or kraut every day, my depressive episode frequency reduced to only once every few months (and my digestive symptoms disappeared).
There's a strong link between your gut and your brain.
This is anecdotal, but changing my diet changed my life for the better.
Or lack of physical activity, or being overweight. Actually, a lot of people are likely overweight, but malnourished because they eat so many empty calories.
This description reminds me of Lyme disease, which is known in medicine as "the great imitator" for its ability to present symptoms of so many other diseases, and therefore quite often be misdiagnosed as something else.
That was exactly what I wanted my doctor to diagnose. If he had asked the basic questions about sleep apnea, (which I didn't know about,) then I would have been treated much sooner.
I was tested for everything under the sun. EKG, stress test, echocardiogram, blood workup, blood sugar monitoring (diabetes?), Holter monitor, xrays, .. on and on. They showed nothing. Several of the doctors tried to gently broach the idea of "stress" perhaps being the cause. But as far as I can tell I'm mentally healthy and a low stress guy.
I went through years of doing my own "research". I suspected everything from heart valve infection, to kidney disease, to lyme, sleep apnea, to some exotic virus. 8 years of nightly misery and soaked sheets.
I suggested apnea to the doctors several times but it was waved off because I'm thin.
I even had an ENT specialist put a camera down my nose looking for something "structural". Nothing.
And yet, after getting a CPAP my symptoms have all but disappeared. WTF? I felt my doctors were caring and competent. How did they blow this so badly?
Over the past 4 years I have gone insane. I have to essentially be my own doctor because no one is willing to help me. Like the guy in the article, I too have freaked out thinking it was cancer and probably spread very far.
I gave up on figuring it out. I absolutely despise doctors with a passion, so much so that I would gladly accept cancer and death into my life than have to deal with doctors. However, before death, I demand that med school gives me an MD since I have to do everything myself anyways.
Had another friend with similar back issues who was told it was his disks from some 'top' doctors and he had similar results as me.
edit I see the comment below me also recommended Sarno's books :)
Still undergoing diagnosis, but MS, fibromyalgia and lyme disease are on the list of likely possibilities.
But, now they can try various treatments for nerve damage, and my pain isn't making me feel utterly insane.
I may be in a wheelchair before I get diagnosed, but simply the knowledge that there is a group of people out there who can understand me takes a heck of a lot off my shoulders.
I would absolutely keep trying.
http://freakonomics.com/podcast/bad-medicine-part-2-drug-tri...
Race wouldn't really play a part here I don't think unless a medicine happened to effect a race differently (e.g. African people often have sickle-cell anemia, so you do have to consider race sometimes as well).
But the user above actually said something differently, in that people are treated differently. Like I said, doctors are trained to treat everybody regardless of race/ gender. Clinical trials based on variables of participants, and the general treatment of individuals is completely different.