You probably would never write this, and your colleagues would never write this. That reasoning is good to apply in many situations. I in fact do this all the time; it’s a huge part of my research agenda. But you have to be careful where you apply it. Soundness is a security guarantee, not a usability concern. What matters is if someone can write this, because then that someone can get around the security measures that people have placed their confidence in and do whatever they would like to do. In the case of soundness, it’s the malicious programmer you should be worried, not just you and your friends.
I really hate this attitude. Programming languages should be designed to be safe and strict by default, but with easy outs. I utterly reject the notion that we should design languages first and foremost to protect us from people can't program that well or aren't careful when they write code.
Do we always have to appeal to the lowest common denominator? Empower the developers that care rather than trying to turn this into an unskilled profession.