Is what you say true for some? Sure.
But there are many far more severely impaired who desperately need better support systems, as do their caregivers.
No wait, I can't...
I also think a fair bit here about how the default becomes invisible when we think about these topics. If you look at a lot of society's institutions, you could see them as "special accommodations" for the neurotypical. Some people will definitely need more support than others. But I'm often struck by how different people just need different support than others. It just looks like extra support because it's not what we're used to.
As a small example, introverts often have a whole host of tricks for dealing with an extroverted world. E.g., sneaking into a bathroom for a few minutes of blessed quiet. The relationship flips when you enter into some introvert-dominated space, like a library. I often wonder what the world would be like if being "on the spectrum" were the majority case, and our current neurotypicals were a clear minority.
Some individuals may need treatment because they have meltdowns / anti anxiety w/e but I don't think this should be framed as 'treating' or 'curing' autism. Autistic individuals may have all sorts of difficulties in their lives that need to be addressed, but the solution isn't to make those individuals not autistic.
When we talk about struggles that minorities and people of color face in American society today, you don't say let's 'treat' or 'cure' blackness -- I don't even need to explain why that's an affront.
now compare to this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvC5gzmwq_8 and please tell me with a straight face that this kid wouldn't greatly benefit from being able to communicate which treatment hopefully gives him or already has.
alternatively, some of you actually went through treatment and are in a i-am-fine-what's-the-problem state of thinking, which is obviously wrong in general.
“In an ideal world the scientist should find a method to prevent the most severe forms of autism but allow the milder forms to survive. After all, the really social people did not invent the first stone spear. It was probably invented by an Aspie who chipped away at rocks while the other people socialized around the campfire. Without autism traits we might still be living in caves.”
although you may have read in some headlines that autism is 'on the rise' and there are an increasing number of diagnoses, I think this is a misinterpretation.
statistics looks like it's on the rise because 50 years ago we didn't know what autism was, and instead we gave diagnosis like 'idiot' and 'imbecile'.
I don't think it's a stretch to say society has always had autists, maybe rather than trying to understand why autism happens energy would be better spent in trying to understand autistic individuals.
Pre conception and post conception genetic screening is available and is practiced by a lot of people and in some case whole populations.
If both parents are carriers of certain genes there are solutions if only one it's easier and just selective fertilization is often used.
Why not both?