> If you don't start playing soccer really young, you will never be able to catch up to someone who did.
And if your child hates soccer? Their ability will only really matter if they want to turn it into a career.
> A child can easily become fluent in two languages if they're immersed from a young age.
Which, if not used, is lost to the years. My mother could speak Serbian when she was young, because she was exposed to it. She can't anymore; hasn't been able to for years. I learned German when I was young, but don't recall a single thing now. Again, unless you want to live in a country where that language is prevalent, the long term value is rather low.
> It would be shame to waste potential.
IMO, it would be a greater shame to shape the child in your image for them, instead of into the person they want to become.
In my experience, social skills, a good sense of self, and a broad educational background have served me better in adulthood than my years spent swimming ever did. If anything, my parents focus on me being a swimmer (which provided a social venue for them) held me back from developing more skills I could have used once I became an adult.