In any case, .gov won't add much to the load -- right now there are all of 5,500 .gov domains, and the rate of adding/removal is on the order of dozens every month at most.
Is that just domains from which web content is hosted, or just second level domains regardless of whether web content is hosted? Because I can't imagine that there are only 5,500 total .gov domains.
https://18f.gsa.gov/2017/01/04/tracking-the-us-governments-p...
We (18F, me) personally measured at least 26,000 (though some of these are used as redirects or are just error pages, etc.).
The ironic thing is we're reinventing the CA system, only now each browser is its own authority, exactly the problem the CA system was trying to solve.
Don't forget mobile and other platforms, where resources are more constrained.
You do need to trust that the particular browser you are using supports preloaded list, and is using the latest updated version of the list, and is not missing any entries!