First, 2-3 orders of magnitude more expensive is quite a steep price to pay for the featureset of Firebase.
Second, it’s only a good idea to use Firebase if you don’t plan on ever migrating away – because that will be hell.
And third, Firebase is a massive engineering effort, and I’m surprised that stuff actually works, considering how much work it is to try and replicate the features I need myself.
On the other hand, somehow I feel like Firebase is just an example of the hell we live in, one of the greatest development tools, and all of it is secret, most not even patented, never will be open or free, and just being used to force developers into a closed ecosystem of Google’s Cloud.
It’d be a lot nicer place if projects like this would be open, so people could use it on their own systems (because I certainly won’t trust a company running systems in a country ruled by Trump).