Wow, both of you are paying a lot, I am sorry. Basically your high premium payments are going to pay for other people's care. Not a fair system. Everybody is not paying their share, middle class is though.
That colonoscopy was $6000, btw. This, for preventative care that could save hundreds of thousands of dollars from colon cancer (and quite possibly my life) down the road. In a well designed system, price controls would put preventative care like colonoscopies below actual cost (and make the money up elsewhere), to save money at the macro level.