His wife got charged more for asking a doctor a single question. I got charged more for a doctor asking me a question.
I had no idea this was a real thing! So doctors must be added to the list along with tax collectors and police where you just stay quiet during confrontations. Wow.
My workplace pays me incentive money for getting an annual physical. So, now I just go to physicals, stay quiet just so that I get the incentive money.
I wonder how doctors feel that their patients are scared of asking them any questions.
That effectively of reduces the scope of meaningful questions I can a doctor to near-zero, right?
As a healthy person, my lesson learned is do not ask doctor a question, unless you have legitimate reason.
Anyone who's gone to a mechanic that's performed unnecessary work knows what that's like... and that's just a car.
If you try that with a hospital, they'll tell you no. Go ahead and try asking your doctor what something will cost.
If I could ask for a price up front, then people who aren't in an emergency could shop around. That would force hospitals to actually compete, which would normally mean most providers would be within a range of the average market price.
So when an emergency does occur and you were taken to a random hospital, chances are that hospital would have prices close to the market price.
That is, 99% of people do not know enough about cars to determine if they are being fleeced.
Now imagine dealing with the human body.
Information symmetry leads to market failures:
My experience is they will tell you, and you can ask for a better price, and I've always gotten one.
The idea that one cannot negotiate with the hospital, the doctor, and the dentist is just incorrect. Try it next time.
In another comment you seemed to indicate that you are perhaps uninsured and paying cash for everything? That would go a long way toward explaining why you have experiences that run dramatically counter to almost everyone else on this thread. It also seems like important information to be included, if so.
I have a high deductible, so usually wind up paying the entire bill out of pocket. There's no reason to go through the insurer for that.
And even when it is an emergency, prices for everything could still be made available.
Hospitals do decide how much they are going to charge for everything before you get the particular procedure. It's just not published.
It's the same with auto repairs. I'd take my car to the dealer for repairs, the service dept quotes me a price, I say that price sounds a little high, the price drops 30%.
In any negotiation, you're going to get the sucker price if you don't ask what the price is, or make no attempt to negotiate. Nobody is obliged to give you their best price automatically.
Another time I visited a neurologist, the woman behind the checkin front desk told me what it would cost. I said that sounded high, can I get a discount? She chirped sure, 30% off for cash on the spot.
Doctors routinely offer discounts for cash on the spot, because then they don't have to deal with patients who are slow payers or don't pay at all.
If they don't, find another doctor. They aren't rare. Heck, dentists are always advertising and offering discounts. They're businesses.
You can get at least 3% off just by using a check, because then they don't have to pay 3% tribute to the credit card company.
I don't recommend being an ass about it. Just be nice and ask for a discount.
Tried this by offering cash on some kitchen remodeling work we were doing. I was talking to the sales person and - we were already going to buy - but I asked if they offered cash discount. She got flustered - almost insulted - "these are our best prices!". I tried to explain running $4000 was going to cost them probably close to 4%, and I have more consumer rights re: chargebacks if I'm not happy. $100 off? $150 off? Nope... flat out refusal ("that's not the way we work!"), so we paid with the credit card. But they just lost that money anyway. :/
Also, I'd be concerned about a personal check for that amount. The last car I bought I put $2K on my miles credit card (the max they would take) and a check for the rest. They made me fill out loan paperwork anyways so that they would have recourse if the check bounced.
I've had a few experiences over the last decade with healthcare services. Had a consultation, some bloodwork and a other bits and bobs - nothing serious. Got a bill a month later for.. $430. This was done through insurance from my employer at the time, but my portion was still ~$430. I went to their office and said this was a little more than I'd be able to pay quickly (not a total lie - would have hurt at the time). Office manager there said "if you can pay cash we can call it $300 and be done with it". I paid the $300 cash and it was fine. This was a small private dr office in a professional office plaza place. Looking back... they could wait another few months for $430... and maybe have to take me to collections, or take $300 cash on the spot. Whatever averages they saw on collections, this was probably not a bad deal.
Few years later, I have same insurance provider, but self-employed, so 'individual/family' plan. My wife got very sick, and we ended up in ER. X-rays, drips, sent home with medication, etc. Got a bill almost 3 months later for ~$3000. Called hospital and asked for some sort of discount. I got (same line from 3 different people on different tries) "this already is a discounted price, because you have insurance, these are the negotiated/discounted rates". Looking more closely at the paperwork, the 'retail' price was somewhere north of $5000, but the insurance company's 'negotiated' rate was ~$3000 ($2800 IIRC).
It never hurts to ask, and maybe ask a lot, but it's not some magic "you'll always pay half price by just asking for a discount". And the point many others have made before - when you're having to go to ER, you don't have the luxury of shopping around, and generally the majority of folks you're seeing there are in no way cognizant of billing/pricing stuff (especially on a sunday when we went).
I went to the doctor for a non-specific illness. The doctor ran $3000 worth of tests, and by the time the last of the test results came back, it had gone away. The doctor shrugged and said "Huh, I dunno what that was. Probably some kind of infection".
Some things are more clear (i.e. a broken arm), but if it doesn't heal well and the $1000 estimate for an X-ray and a cast turns into a $10000 surgical procedure plus 6 months of therapy, are you going to expect the doctor to just eat the cost? Are you going to shop your painful broken arm and medical records around to 3 different doctors to get a new estimate?
And yeah, there is a "book value" for repairs (body and mechanical). Sometimes they can do it faster, sometimes much faster. They're charging you retail price for parts, not wholesale. Etc. Of course you can negotiate and save money, but it's worlds different from health care.
And you see that with cars too. If someone is having an ordeal related to auto-maintenance, you often hear insurance mentioned...
To extend your analogy, let's say I want to fix a broken headlight. I know how to do this, and can get better headlights than the one that would be offered through the two mechanics in my neighborhood. I can do this myself more cheaply. Or maybe my friend who used to work as an airline mechanic wants to do it as a favor. Or who knows.
With medical care, you might realistically only have one option due to problems with insurance coverage, so even if you were given the price, you'd have no choice. But even if you had two choices, you don't have a third option because it's legislated away. If I need my medication that I've been taking for four years without any problems, and it's a low risk med anyway, why should I have to go to see a PA, NP, or MD to get a prescription for it?
It's not just that the costs are opaque and hidden, it's that you are legally mandated in certain respects to accept them. The alternative is generally only to not have the service done.
Though I wouldn't expect Republicans to ever admit that, at least congressional ones. If the regulation existed under Reagan its the best thing ever (see: if establishment corporations abuse it) and if wasn't its communism (see: donor corporations don't want to be regulated).
Except, of course, you shouldn't be able to buy over state lines. That's for your protection for some reason.
And once everyone has free market insurance then everything will be fine. You'll be able to choose the plan that can help you cover your bills.
Your bills will still be generated by a labyrinthian and byzantine system that no one including the people in charge of running it actually understand driven heavily by profits, phases of the moon, insanity, and corn prices.
But you'll have free market insurance (sort of)! So everything will be fine!
Realistically, I get the feeling that we've found new ways repeatedly to direct our system down blind allies to the point where I wonder if we can ever find our way back out without a massive disaster/collapse.
Not arguing with you, but there's another field where this is common: Law.
I contacted multiple hospitals for cost estimates on a simple procedure (hours of phone calls) and only one would actually give me an "estimate." They went out of their way to explain that this was only an estimate and it could easily end up costing more than this due to a number of factors.
I really doubt any hospital will ever give you a committed price for any procedure. I would love to be proven wrong from any other posters :).
You can also show the estimate to other hospitals - this will often loosen them up about quoting a price because they'll want the business.
Typically, indeed, you'll find wording to that exact effect. "This is only an estimate. Actual costs may differ."