But what advice would you give someone who has an offer from Uber/Airbnb/Dropbox/Pinterest/Palantir? They're derisked to the point where the RSUs/options should have some value, and their offers to employees definitely reflects this. In addition, many of these very late stage companies' employment offers are very heavy on the equity side. Would you still just tell someone who has an Airbnb offer who's weighing it against say, one from Microsoft, to consider the options to be worth $0?
I had a friend who was in a similar predicament and the friend didn't seem to want to believe the steep discounts I told him he needs to apply to the RSUs/Options. At the very least 5%/year compound discounting for the illiquidity premium, as well as a steep 20-30%+ discount for uncertainty for actual exit. Not just business metrics, but macro market conditions as well as the random whims of the board.
I personally value liquidity a lot, and made a strong case that a comparable offer from a publicly traded tech firm to blow a late stage startup's equity heavy package out of the water.