Huge cities...good riddance.
I live nearish to Salt Lake City (whose metro pop. is less than a quarter of Boston's), have tons of software job opportunities, have a 17-20 min commute, and bought a 2k sqft house on 0.19 acres for less than 200k.
Big cities are crowded. They have their advantages, but even if they weren't overpriced, I'd probably still prefer my elbow room.