It seems to me like there should be exceptions in building codes if a building will never be sold and does not put others in danger (e.g., a shack in the forest)
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/2-arrested-for-arson-in-colorado...
http://tri1025.com/illegal-campers-may-have-started-another-...
http://www.oregonlive.com/pacific-northwest-news/index.ssf/2...
http://www.wkyt.com/home/headlines/Cause-of-Rowan-wildfire-a...
http://www.khq.com/story/32604122/11000-acre-wildfire-burnin...
It almost sounds to me like you don't WANT to find a better solution.