The only comment I'll make in this thread is to link to https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=13098744
I suppose I should be glad that nobody here leaps to 'programmer error' as an explanation for anything.
The comment might have gotten unkilled because of a bug that I might have introduced yesterday. Looking into it now.
Edit: yep, it turns out I introduced a bug, with the dismaying but hilarious property that flagging a dead comment would revive it. We'll revert the change and try again later.
I know we sometimes have differences, but I do want to reiterate that I think on the whole, you've made this site better, and am glad that HN is taking moderation seriously.