Not that you shouldn't trust doctors, but I always do some Googling to get a second opinion about all psychoactive drugs I'm prescribed.
I tried to nitpick on things that mattered for me, but you cannot easily claim "I'm more up to date than you on <xyz> illness" to a legal doctor without feeling a little ridiculous.
That's why I root for more non invasive monitoring and intervention. Many doctors told me the "based on these tests, you have nothing", bailing out when I asked for more because deeper tests would require potential ICU. So you end up floating in the unknown hoping for the best.
One dared me to reproduce heart failure on the spot because there was some tension between me and him.
It odd.
Arrogance, showboating, non-science and anti-pragmatism are the biggest killers.
A bunch of drugs were stopped in the past because of post marketing reports.
After that experience, I decided it was better to just feel depressed.
Ironically, sexual issues can cause depression, and sexual issues are a side effect of a lot of medications used to treat depressions.
I suspect this is probably highly regional, and highly doctor-specific. Was this doctor a General Physician, or a psychiatrist?
I remember being off one day (10mg per day) and having the same sensation you get when an elevator stops after going up. A chill in your spine, except it was very intense, and located in my brain only. Lasted a day, only thing that would relieve it is swallowing something..
I really hope I don't have to enjoy this kind of black magic again next month. I'll be sure to go off very smoothly.
* Research the potential withdrawal effects. They're much more upsetting and disruptive when you don't know what to expect or how to attribute the effects. But don't panic preemptively and expect all of them, just commit them to memory so that you don't panic if and when they occur.
* As others have suggested - taper off as gradually as you can.
* Do not schedule the discontinuation around any deadlines or professional engagements. Use a bad case of the flu as an excuse - assuming you're in the northern hemisphere it's flu season, and conveniently enough SSRI withdrawal symptoms can resemble those of the flu (http://www.aafp.org/afp/2006/0801/p449.html).
Having been prescribed paroxetene for crippling anxiety and having suffered through severe withdrawal effects myself, hopefully this will help.
I hope you're well now.