Looking at the profit of companies like Google and Facebook overstates the impact for them. They are making tons of money, but a lot of that is just a shift in the location of advertising dollars. Amazon has lowered prices, and there's real economic impact there, but what is the actual percentage?
In my current line of work, transportation management software, we're giving companies tools to be more efficient and reduce their freight expenditure, but the reductions are really very modest--good enough to keep customers happy, but nothing revolutionary. That seems to be the pattern for an awful lot of software: if you can beat an established industry by a little bit, that's enough for a business, but that's not the kind of revolution that you'd think there is listening to people hyping startups.
And if you think I'm wrong, ask yourself why GDP growth has been so anemic in the age of the Internet.