Short version: alcohol.
In seems a person's whole life can be summed up by the one thing that killed them. I never really thought of it that way before. Interesting insight.
"It tore him up inside when his father died. One
time we went to his grave," Fischer says. "He'd always
say that when his father was alive they'd go fishing
and do man things."Of course you speculate whether he would have been an alcoholic if he hadn't had a lonely childhood and hadn't had someone so close to him that died.
That's what my second sentence alludes to.
(and thus completely miss the point)